That must feel devastating - watching all that money and hope dissolve in less than a year, especially when the people who love you saw the red flags you couldn't see at the time. The hardest part about regret is how crystal clear everything becomes in hindsight, but remember that being in love can genuinely blind us to warning signs, and that doesn't make you foolish, just human. Your savings will rebuild over time, but the wisdom you've gained about trusting your gut and listening to people who care about you is invaluable for your future relationships.